A carer is someone of any age who provides unpaid support to family or friends who could not manage without this help. This could be caring for a relative, partner or friend who is ill, frail, disabled or has mental health problems.

Carers may even be juggling paid work with their unpaid caring responsibilities at home. The term carer should not be confused with a care worker, or care assistant, who receives payment for looking after someone.

If you are a carer, Bikur Cholim may be able to help make things easier for you.

The following services are available for carers:


Our peer to peer support groups are a safe space for carers to meet other carers in similar circumstances on a regular basis.  Our support groups meet monthly for an hour and a half during evening hours at Bikur Cholim.

  • Currently we have the following Support Groups:
  • Carers support group for women caring for people with mental health issues
  • Carers Support group for men caring for people with mental health issues
  • Carers Support group for carers of people with Dementia
  • Carers Support group for carers of people with Diabetes

If you would like more information about any of our support groups please contact Malka Sonnenberg on 020 8800 7575.

Caring for someone close to you can be satisfying and rewarding. Sometimes caring can make you feel tired, over-loaded, stressed and depressed.  Caring can bring up complex and difficult feelings and family and friends may not always be the best people to talk to.  Counsellors are trained to listen attentively and to help you find your own answers.

Typical reasons for carers to seek counselling:

  • When you first start looking after someone
  • When you have been caring for a long time, feel exhausted and have your own health problems
  • At times of family crisis such as bereavement, loss of job or housing problems
  • When you consider stopping caring

If you would like more information about our counselling service please contact Leah Chontow on 020 8800 7575 or 07908 614 403.

A Carer’s Assessment is your opportunity to talk about your own needs and things that could make caring easier for you. You may discuss the kind of care you already provide for the cared for, this may include personal care, practical help and emotional support. You could also take this opportunity to address areas of difficulty and identify ways to resolve them with our services and support. This may range from a short break, to information about Carer’s support groups so you may meet other Carers in a similar situation as yourself, benefits advice, activities for the person who is cared for, and so on.

The assessment is a face to face discussion between you and the person carrying out the assessment. A carer may ask for the assessment to be carried out in private away from the person being cared for. If you have had a Carers Assessment, you can request a Review of your needs. You can request a Carers Assessment or a Carers Review even if the person you care for refuses help.

Who can get a Carer’s Assessment?

  1. you are over 18 years of age, live in Hackney and provide or intend to provide regular and substantial care for someone over 18 years of age, you can have a Carers Assessment to discuss the help you need.

For more information please contact Naomi Spitzer on 020 8800 7575.

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Over the past year we’ve been fortunate to provide help to as many as a thousand families in the North London Jewish community. 

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